Balancing Love

I’m Married And Cheating

Married, Cheating, Affair

Did you ever think you would be married and cheating on your spouse? But you are. So now what? Before we get to that, we need to go back and figure out what lead you to this point. Then we can figure out what you’re going to do moving forward.

There’s several reasons why people cheat on their partners. Some reasons are small and superficial, others are bigger and deeper rooted.

I myself have never cheated on anyone. Yes, I have come close, who hasn’t? However, I know of A LOT of people that have. Whether it’s a one time event, cheating for months, cheating multiple times with different people, etc. I’m pretty sure I’ve seen all the scenarios.

What is cheating? Cheating is when you are emotionally or physically unfaithful to your partner that you’re in an exclusive relationship with.

So, why are you cheating on your partner or spouse? Are you emotionally cheating, sexually cheating, or both? It can be one reason or several. Men and women are different. Women usually cheat when their emotional needs aren’t being met. Whereas, men usually cheat when their sexual needs aren’t being met. Either reason is equally bad. Let’s look at them all so you can see which ones apply to you.

  • Communication. This is the #1 reason. If you haven’t been able to communicate your feelings to your partner after several attempts, you feel as though your feelings don’t matter to them. Being open about the good and the bad, feeling safe to express that and be heard.
  • Desire. We all have desires. Some people meet someone else and they just simply put, have the desire to be intimate with someone else and they act on it. If you feel like your partner isn’t meeting your needs sexually you will look for someone else to meet those needs.
  • Anger. Did your partner do something to you that made you so angry you want to hurt them back? Did they cheat on you? Have they been letting you down for years you just got fed up? Are they never around for you?
  • Compatibility. Do you not have anything in common with that person, but thought you did? Are you having buyers remorse? Do you wish you didn’t marry that person?
  • Fell Out Of Love. Have you fallen out of love with your partner? Are all your feelings toward that person gone and now you’ve looked for love and companionship in someone else?
  • Work. Do you work in an environment where there is a lot of physical touch with others? Are you constantly around mainly men or mainly women? Do you travel all the time for your job?
  • Emotional Needs. Are your emotional needs not being met by your partner? Is your partner not interested in what you think or feel? Have you looked to someone else to fulfill that? Do you now have that with someone else?
  • Sexual Needs. Is your partner not interested in sex anymore, but you are? Is your partner never home to meet your sexual needs? Is your sexual desire much more than your partners?
  • Boredom. Is your relationship/marriage boring? Is your partner boring? Do you always need the “thrill” feeling? Do they not like to do anything? Go anywhere? Do you not share the same enjoyment of sports, festivals, concerts, parties?
  • Body Image. Is your partner not attractive anymore? Did they let themselves go physically and you’re not turned on by them anymore? Do they not care how they look, act, dress? Has that turned you off?

Now that we have figured out the why, let’s figure out what your options are moving forward.

  1. Are you planning on ending your affair? Do you even want to end it?
  2. What if your partner finds out? Will they leave you?
  3. Do you still want to be married? If you do then you need to end your affair immediately. All contact in every way.
  4. Have you fallen in love with the person you are having an affair with? How do they feel about you?
  5. Can you commit to seeing a counselor about why you’ve cheated? There’s a reason why you did this, getting to the root cause can prevent you from doing it again.
  6. Are you going to tell your spouse? Have you considered the ramifications if they find out? What it will do to them as well as your children if you have kids?
  7. Have you considered marriage counseling?

I’m not here to judge you in anyway, or tell you what to do. However, your actions will have deep impacts on your spouse. Whether you tell them, they find out another way, or you continue your affair and live a lie. Let me ask you this. How would you feel if your spouse was doing this to you? Would it kill you? Crush you? Ruin you? Destroy you? If you answered yes to any of those then you need to make a decision and NOW!.

” Do unto others, as you would have them do unto you”.

Do you need more help? Email me at info@balancinglove.com or bring specific questions you need advice or answers on to our forum at, “Ask Jen”.

Please follow and like us:

147 Comments

  1. Pingback:สล็อต xo

  2. Pingback:สล็อตเว็บตรง แตกง่าย

  3. Pingback:motorsport

  4. Pingback:dragongaming

  5. Pingback:ฝาก ถอนเงิน สล็อตวอเลท ไม่มีขั้นต่ำ

  6. נערות ליווי

    I was very pleased to uncover this great site. I need to to thank you for ones time for this fantastic read!! I definitely appreciated every bit of it and I have you bookmarked to look at new information on your blog.

  7. Pingback:Click for more

  8. Pingback:바이낸스

  9. Pingback:Multiple streams of income

  10. Pingback:Investing in the stock market

  11. Pingback:ใบอณุญาติ PG SOFT

  12. Pingback:locksmith Glastonbury CT

  13. Pingback:ทดลองเล่นบาคาร่าเช็กชี่

  14. Pingback:bonanza 178

  15. Pingback:http://bonanza178.pl/

  16. Pingback:buy magic mushrooms online

  17. Pingback:นำเข้าสินค้าจากจีน

  18. Pingback:magicmushroomsdispensary

  19. Pingback:pappy van winkle 20 year

  20. Pingback:ruby disposables cz 457 chassis cz75 kadet cz 457 provarmint cz accushadow ruby gmo cookies ruby goat milk disposable psl rifle for sale köpa stesolid utan recept fidel runtz strain

  21. Pingback:w88 รับเงินฟรี

  22. Pingback:หมอไก่ at medical clinic

  23. Pingback:buy fryd carts

  24. Pingback:alpha88 mobile

  25. Pingback:togel hongkong

  26. Pingback:sudoku

  27. Pingback:bonanza178

  28. Pingback:ข่าวกีฬา

  29. Pingback:slot maxwin

  30. Pingback:muaythai ticket

  31. Pingback:muay thai bangkok

  32. Pingback:สล็อต pg เว็บตรง แตกหนัก

  33. Pingback:ป้ายโฆษณา

  34. Pingback:สล็อตเบทฟิก

  35. Pingback:สูตรบอลแทงทบ

  36. Pingback:Hunter898

  37. Pingback:pool villas in phuket

  38. Pingback:Fryd

  39. Pingback:เรียนภาษาญี่ปุ่น

  40. jav max

    My partner aand I stumbled ovedr hesre by a different page aand
    thoughnt I might check things out. I ike what I seee sso i am just following you.
    Loook forward to going over your webb page repeatedly.

  41. Home Foundation Repair Denver

    Simply wish to say your article is as astounding. The clarity in your post is simply excellent and
    i could assume you are an expert on this subject. Fine with your permission let me
    to grab your feed to keep up to date with forthcoming post.

    Thanks a million and please carry on the rewarding
    work.

  42. kedai tayar near me

    Pretty nice post. I just stumbled upon your blog and wanted to mention that
    I have truly loved surfing around your blog posts.
    In any case I will be subscribing for your feed and I’m hoping you write once more soon!

  43. 서울출장마사지

    저희 서울출장안마는 고객님이 가장 편안함을 느끼는 곳으로 직접 찾아가, 불필요한 이동
    없이 오롯이 휴식에만 집중할 수 있도록 도와드립니다.
    자택, 숙소, 오피스텔 서울출장마사지

  44. online scam alert

    I really like your blog.. very nice colors & theme.
    Did you create this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for you?
    Plz respond as I’m looking to design my own blog and would like to find out where u
    got this from. cheers

  45. slot gacor

    I’m really enjoying the design and layout of your site.
    It’s a very easy on the eyes which makes it much more enjoyable for me to come here
    and visit more often. Did you hire out a developer to create your theme?
    Superb work!

  46. bandar toto

    I like the valuable information you supply to your articles.
    I will bookmark your blog and take a look at
    once more here regularly. I’m quite certain I will be informed lots of new stuff proper right here!
    Good luck for the following!

  47. Mattress Protector

    Howdy great blog! Does running a blog similar to this require a large
    amount of work? I’ve absolutely no expertise in programming
    however I was hoping to start my own blog in the near future.
    Anyhow, if you have any ideas or techniques for new blog owners please share.
    I understand this is off subject but I just wanted to ask.

    Appreciate it!

  48. 강남퍼펙트

    강남퍼펙트는 프라이빗 룸, 고급 인테리어, 맞춤형 서비스, 철저한 위생 관리로 방문객에게 독특한 경험을 제공합니다.
    공간은 개인 또는 그룹 단위로 활용할 수 있으며

  49. 일산출장마사지

    일산출장마사지 서비스는 일산광역시 전역에서 편안하게 전문
    마사지를 받을 수 있는 출장 홈타이 서비스입니다.
    고객님이 계신 곳으로 여성 전문 테라피스트가 직접

  50. 소액대출

    소액대출은 급하게 현금이 필요할 때 빠르고
    간편하게 자금을 마련할 수 있는 대표적인 방법입니다.
    큰 금액이 아니어서 비교적 짧은 기간 내 상환하는 경우가
    많고, 신청

  51. kiko toto

    An impressive share! I’ve just forwarded this onto a co-worker who was doing a little homework on this.
    And he actually ordered me breakfast due to the fact that I found it for
    him… lol. So let me reword this…. Thank YOU for the meal!!
    But yeah, thanx for spending some time to
    discuss this matter here on your internet site.

  52. printing services nairobi

    I am really inspired together with your writing skills and also
    with the format for your weblog. Is this a paid subject or did you customize
    it your self? Anyway keep up the excellent quality writing, it’s uncommon to peer
    a great blog like this one today..

  53. 대구출장마사지

    대구출장마사지 서비스는 대구광역시 전역에서 편안하게 전문 마사지를
    받을 수 있는 출장 홈타이 서비스입니다.
    고객님이 계신 곳으로 여성 전문 테라피스트가 직접

  54. 수원출장마사지

    수원출장마사지 – 수원 전역 호텔・자택에서 아로마마사지,
    스포츠마사지, 스웨디시를 전문 테라피스트에게 받아보세요.
    고품격 홈케어 힐링과 맞춤 서비스, 철저한
    위생 관리로 남녀 누구나 안심하고 이용할 수 있습니다

  55. 폰테크

    폰테크란 무엇인가? 폰테크는 휴대폰을 통해 현금을 마련하는 독특한 재테크 방법입니다.
    좀 더 자세히 말해, 새로운 휴대폰을 개통한 뒤
    그 휴대폰을 사용하지 않고

  56. 원주출장마사지

    원주출장마사지 서비스는 원주광역시 전역에서 편안하게 전문
    마사지를 받을 수 있는 출장 홈타이 서비스입니다.
    고객님이 계신 곳으로 여성 전문
    테라피스트가 직접

  57. 광명출장마사지

    광명출장마사지(광명출장안마) 24시 연중무휴 운영!

    아로마·스포츠·발마사지 등 광명 홈타이 출장 서비스로, 광명시
    전지역 남녀노소 누구나 자택이나 호텔 등 원하는

  58. 순천출장마사지

    순천출장마사지 서비스는 순천광역시 전역에서 편안하게 전문 마사지를 받을
    수 있는 출장 홈타이 서비스입니다.
    고객님이 계신 곳으로 여성 전문 테라피스트가 직접 찾아

  59. slot dana

    I really like your blog.. very nice colors & theme. Did you design this website yourself or did you hire someone to do it for you?
    Plz respond as I’m looking to construct my own blog
    and would like to find out where u got this from. thanks a lot

  60. slot online

    Hello, i feel that i saw you visited my website so i came to return the choose?.I’m trying to in finding issues to improve my website!I assume its good enough to make use
    of some of your ideas!!

  61. 진주출장마사지

    진주출장마사지 – 진주 전역에 24시간 여성
    전문 마사지사가 찾아가는 출장 안마 서비스!
    아로마, 스포츠, 커플 마사지로 피로와 스트레스를 합리적
    가격에 풀어보세요

  62. 수원출장마사지

    수원출장마사지 24시간 연중무휴 운영!
    여성 전문 테라피스트가 수원 전 지역 어디든
    찾아갑니다. 아로마마사지·스포츠마사지·타이마사지 출장안마 서비스를 합리적

  63. slot gacor

    We’re a gaggle of volunteers and starting a brand new scheme in our community.
    Your website provided us with useful information to work on.
    You’ve performed a formidable activity and our whole neighborhood will likely be grateful to you.

  64. строительство

    Hi! This is kind of off topic but I need some guidance from
    an established blog. Is it difficult to set up your own blog?
    I’m not very techincal but I can figure things out pretty fast.

    I’m thinking about creating my own but I’m not sure where to begin. Do you have any tips
    or suggestions? Thank you

  65. 구미출장마사지

    구미출장마사지 서비스는 구미광역시 전역에서 편안하게 전문 마사지를 받을 수 있는 구미 홈타이 서비스입니다.
    고객님이 계신 곳으로 여성 전문 테라피스트가 직접

  66. 오피아트

    오피아트(opart)는 대전·충청 지역에 특화된 유흥
    정보 플랫폼입니다. 오피, 마사지, 휴게텔 등 다양한 업소 정보를 검증된 후기와 실시간 업데이트로 제공하여 신뢰를

  67. Electric Forklift

    I absolutely love your website.. Great colors & theme. Did you create this web site yourself?

    Please reply back as I’m trying to create my own blog and would like to find out
    where you got this from or exactly what the theme is named.
    Appreciate it!

  68. 비아그라 효능​

    I used to be recommended this blog through my cousin. I’m now not certain whether or not this post is written by means of him as nobody else recognise such designated approximately my problem.
    You’re incredible! Thank you!

  69. sahibe video

    Wow that was strange. I just wrote an incredibly long comment
    but after I clicked submit my comment didn’t appear. Grrrr…

    well I’m not writing all that over again. Anyway, just wanted to say great
    blog!

  70. hargatoto login

    Hello there, I discovered your website via Google while
    searching for a comparable topic, your web site got here up, it seems great.

    I’ve bookmarked it in my google bookmarks.

    Hi there, just became aware of your weblog via Google,
    and located that it’s really informative. I am gonna be careful for brussels.
    I will be grateful in case you proceed this in future.
    Numerous other folks can be benefited out of your writing.

    Cheers!

  71. apple-market.ru

    Hi there this is somewhat of off topic but I was wanting to know if blogs use WYSIWYG
    editors or if you have to manually code with HTML. I’m starting
    a blog soon but have no coding expertise so I wanted to get guidance from someone
    with experience. Any help would be greatly appreciated!

  72. 대전룸싸롱

    대전룸싸롱 – 품격 있는 분위기와
    최고급 서비스! 고객 만족 리뷰와 투명한
    가격으로 신뢰를 더했습니다. 대전 시내 중심에 위치하여 접근성도 뛰어납니다.

  73. friendlylikes.com

    I like the helpful information you provide for
    your articles. I will bookmark your weblog and check again right here
    frequently. I’m relatively certain I’ll learn a
    lot of new stuff right here! Best of luck for the next!

  74. Veterinary Medical Devices

    Excellent post. Keep posting such kind of info on your
    site. Im really impressed by your site.
    Hey there, You have done a great job. I will definitely digg
    it and in my opinion suggest to my friends. I am sure they will be benefited
    from this website.

  75. 키탐넷

    키탐넷은 ‘키스타임넷’으로 불리던 국내 성인용 정보·광고
    플랫폼의 별칭으로 알려져 있습니다. 본 글은 키탐넷 관련 기본 개념,
    이용 시 개인정보 보호

  76. Digital Signage

    Pretty section of content. I just stumbled upon your blog and in accession capital to assert that I acquire in fact enjoyed account your blog
    posts. Any way I’ll be subscribing to your feeds and even I achievement you access
    consistently fast.

  77. 엠빅스 필름형

    Oh my goodness! Impressive article dude! Thanks, However I
    am encountering issues with your RSS. I don’t know the reason why I cannot subscribe to it.
    Is there anybody else having the same RSS problems?
    Anybody who knows the solution will you kindly respond?
    Thanx!!

  78. Togel Online Terpercaya

    Coba Pestoto sebagai situs Togel Online Terpercaya dengan pelayanan profesional.
    Di pestoto, Anda bisa menemukan prediksi angka akurat serta permainan Togel Singapura yang lengkap.

    Segera bergabung dan rasakan sensasi bermain terpercaya bersama pestoto.

  79. Login Here

    When someone writes an post he/she retains the thought of a user in his/her brain that how
    a user can understand it. So that’s why this piece of writing is amazing.
    Thanks!

  80. Snus

    Magnificent items from you, man. I have bear in mind your stuff prior to and you are
    just too great. I really like what you’ve acquired here,
    really like what you’re saying and the way during which you say
    it. You are making it enjoyable and you still take care of to keep it sensible.
    I can not wait to learn much more from you. This is actually a
    wonderful site.

  81. slot gacor

    Hi there! Someone in my Facebook group shared this site with
    us so I came to give it a look. I’m definitely enjoying the information. I’m bookmarking
    and will be tweeting this to my followers! Excellent blog and terrific style and design.

  82. Jun88

    Bài phân tích quá xuất sắc, đọc mải mê luôn. Nhân tiện đây,
    mình xin phép giới thiệu một địa chỉ cá cược uy tín bậc nhất chính là trang Jun88.

    Nói về độ sòng phẳng nạp rút thì Jun88 luôn là top 1.

    Đặc biệt bên này nạp rút siêu tốc, game gì cũng có.
    Chúc anh em đại thắng rực rỡ cùng Jun88 nha.

  83. VIRUS

    Asking questions are truly nice thing if you are not understanding something completely, however this article presents nice understanding yet.

  84. lembaga penyelenggara training

    Temukan layanan dari training provider terbaik di
    Indonesia yang menawarkan berbagai program pelatihan profesional.

    Sebagai lembaga pelatihan terbaik, kami menyediakan pusat diklat Indonesia dengan materi terupdate untuk meningkatkan keterampilan Anda.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *

error

Enjoy this blog? Please spread the word :)