What Women Want….

Jennifer Lee Woods February 2, 2022 Single and Ready to Mingle 54 Comments

What do women want? What kind of man does a woman want? What does a woman need? How many of you ask yourself this? How many of you guys ask your female friends, what do women want?

***Disclaimer: This article is written by me; a straight woman. For the intent of this article, as well as all my articles, my goal is to provide content relatable to all sexual preferences.

So, since I am a woman this article was super easy for me. It’s 1 of 2 things. Either women know exactly what they want, OR it’s like this, “I don’t know what I want, but I definitely know what I DO NOT want”.

So, what do women want? Who the hell knows, we don’t even know. JK. No I’m not. Yes I am. Hahaha

We want a man that makes us happy. OK, that’s easy enough right? The answer is not really. Women are complicated human beings. One minute Italian makes us happy and the next it’s Mexican. Done. Everything we think, or act upon is based on emotion. Why? Because we are hormonal. Babies come out of our vaginas. Milk comes out of our breasts, enough said. We want you to figure us out and just simply put, make us happy. It’s little things we need from you. If our favorite flower is Lily’s, buy us a bouquet of Lily’s, not tulips. Remember that one day when we told you Lily’s were our favorite flower? Grab our favorite coffee. Bring over/home a bag of chocolates or container of our favorite cookies when it’s our time of the month.

We want a man that is nurturing. When we are upset, we look to you for comfort. Whether you hold us, tell us everything will be ok, we need to feel that from you to believe it. A caring, nurturing man, is a HOT man. It emotionally connects us to you. AND it’s a huge turn on. wink wink

We want a MAN. Not a child. If you are immature in any capacity, we are all set. This is especially true if women have kids. Listen, we have to wipe their ass’ we don’t want to have to wipe yours too, ok? Your a man act like one. Chivalry is not dead. We want to feel protected by you. No, we don’t need you to beat everyone ass that talks to us, we want you to kill spiders for us, without screaming like a little girl.

We want a man that has good hygiene. Listen up guys. If you look like a slob, we’re all set. Stains all over your shirt, shirts that are too tight to where if you move the wrong way the button is going to pop off and poke our eyes out, no thanks. Invest in an iron and learn how to use it. Same goes for your hair and teeth. Wash your hair, everyday. Get a hair cut every 2-3 weeks. Brush your teeth. If you have yellow stains on your teeth, buy some Crest white strips. Go to the dentist, snaggleteeth are not a thing. Your smile is the first thing we notice. If you can buy a case of beer, you can buy white strips. Breath mints, priceless.

Style. We want a man who has some style. Perception is deception. We don’t know and don’t care where you buy your clothes. You can shop anywhere and they will have the latest styles and trends. Whether your single, in a relationship, or married, if you look good you will feel good, and we will notice. You should want to keep us attracted to you. Cologne. Do not go cheap on this, or rogue, ask a friend. A guy that smells good…trust me on this!!

Intimacy. We want a guy that wants to please us. Switch up your routine. We want to fulfill your fantasies. No, we don’t want to watch porn with you, btw. Make it, YES, watch it, NO! Don’t ask us what we want, take it from Nike, Just Do It. The phrase, “How do you want it” SUCKS!! There are times when we want you to just rip our clothes off in the kitchen and….(fill in the blanks) and other times when we want the 5 course event. Just save the Q&A for after.

Flaws. We all have them. Please don’t try to hid them. Trust me, we know what they are. Be open about your flaws. Women want a man that can admit their flaws and work on them.

Honesty. It’s very simple. If you lie about dumb little shit, we will know it. You will not gain respect back if you can’t be honest from jump. In other words, don’t tell lies to impress us, because when we find out those lies, your credibility is shot. Please just be you.

I emailed some subscribers and friends of mine and asked them, “What do you want in a man?” Here are some of their responses:

Amy from Texas wrote, “What I don’t want in a man is someone that acts cocky. Men that act cocky are usually trying to cover up an insecurity.

Kelly from New York wrote, “I want a guy that can make me laugh. I don’t mean funny jokes. I mean like weak in the knees, hit the deck laughing. Hitting that inner funny bone is right up there with hitting that “other” coveted spot. If a man can do both of those, it’s game over for me.”

Karen from Kentucky wrote, “I want a man that loves me for who I am. I am an introvert, please don’t try to make me an extrovert”.

“I am not interested in a man’s status, money, body, or looks. I can find that in just about anyone. What I really want is a man that cherishes me, adores me, and loves me with every fiber of his being”. Author, Jennifer Woods

If you have more specific questions, bring it to the forum at, “Ask Jen”.

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